Nurse death: Family of Jacintha Saldanha describe “unfillable void” left by loss

18:31 15 December 2012

Benedict Barboza outside Westminster Cathedral in central London with daughter Lisha, 14, and son Junal, 16,  with Keith Vaz MP (right) after a mass for Jacintha Saldanha. Picture: Sean Dempsey/PA Wire

Benedict Barboza outside Westminster Cathedral in central London with daughter Lisha, 14, and son Junal, 16, with Keith Vaz MP (right) after a mass for Jacintha Saldanha. Picture: Sean Dempsey/PA Wire

The family of the nurse found hanged after answering a prank call from two Australian radio DJs described the “unfillable void” left in their lives as a mass was held for her at Westminster Cathedral today.

A mass was held today for Jacintha Saldanha. Picture: AP Photo/Saldanha familyA mass was held today for Jacintha Saldanha. Picture: AP Photo/Saldanha family

Mother-of-two Jacintha Saldanha, 46, was found hanging in her nurses’ quarters at King Edward VII’s Hospital in London by a colleague and a security guard on December 7.

The nurse transferred the 2Day FM DJs, believing they were the Queen and Prince of Wales, to a colleague who described in detail the condition of the Duchess of Cambridge during her hospital stay for severe pregnancy sickness.

Following the service, Ms Saldanha’s husband Benedict Barboza and two children Junal and Lisha paid an emotional tribute to a “kind-hearted, generous and well-respected woman”.

Fighting back tears, Mr Barboza said: “My wife, you were the light in my darkness, who always showed me the way forward.

Benedict Barboza outside Westminster Cathedral in central London with daughter Lisha and son Junal. Picture: Sean Dempsey/PA WireBenedict Barboza outside Westminster Cathedral in central London with daughter Lisha and son Junal. Picture: Sean Dempsey/PA Wire

“From the day we met, you always stood by me in times of hardship and happiness.

“I feel a part of me has been ripped out.

“Without your beautiful smile and sparkling personality, the house is an empty place to live.

“Nineteen years of togetherness with a strong bond of affection and understanding will be cherished forever in my life.

Benedict Barboza leaves Westminster Cathedral in central London with Lisha and son Junal. Picture: Sean Dempsey/PA WireBenedict Barboza leaves Westminster Cathedral in central London with Lisha and son Junal. Picture: Sean Dempsey/PA Wire

“Your loss is a very painful one and nobody can take that place in my life ever again. I love you and miss you forever.”

Ms Saldanha’s son Junal said: “Our mother, kind hearted, generous and a well respected woman in both of our lives. You were the core of the family who kept is together.

“In times of difficulty you showed us the way forward to happiness and success.

“Your priority for us was a good education and a bright future. You taught us right from wrong which we appreciate.

Lisha is comforted by MP Keith Vaz as her father Benedict Barboza and brother Junal stand outside Westminster Cathedral. Picture: Sean Dempsey/PA WireLisha is comforted by MP Keith Vaz as her father Benedict Barboza and brother Junal stand outside Westminster Cathedral. Picture: Sean Dempsey/PA Wire

“You worked tirelessly to give us everything that we have today. When we achieved good grades and merit, your pat on our backs encouraged us more.”

Daughter Lisha, 14, said: “We will miss your laughter, the loving memories and the good times we had together. The house is an empty dwelling without your presence.

“We are shattered and there’s an unfillable void in our lives.

“We love you mum, sleep in peace and watch over us until me meet again in heaven. We will always love you and keep you close to our heart.”

Standing outside the cathedral alongside their local MP Charlotte Leslie and MP Keith Vaz, who has been campaigning on behalf of the family, Mr Barboza said the family “could not have foreseen the unprecedented tragedy that has unfolded in our lives”.

He said: “The events of the last week have shattered our lives. We barely have the strength to withstand the grief and sorrow.”

He thanked the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge and Prime Minister David Cameron for their condolences.

During the service, Father Alexander Master said: “The mass is offered for the repose of the soul of Jacintha Saldanha and also for the family, some of whom we welcome here today.

“We pray for them and, in particular, for her.”

Memorial services have already been held at the hospital where Ms Saldanha worked and in Bristol where her husband and children live.

Her funeral will take place in Karnataka, India, on Monday, her family said.

Indian-born Ms Saldanha left three notes and also had marks on her wrist when her body was discovered, Westminster Coroner’s Court in London heard on Thursday.

The DJs behind the hoax call - Mel Greig and Michael Christian - have given an emotional account of their reaction to Ms Saldanha’s death.

Interviewed on Australian TV networks, the presenters said their prank call to the hospital prompted “a tragic turn of events no-one could have predicted or expected”.

A provisional date of March 26 has been set for the next inquest hearing into Ms Saldanha’s death.

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